Exploding Turkeys and Obnoxious Relatives – NOW it’s the Holidays!

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Are you ready for Thanksgiving?! The relatives are coming! The relatives are coming! But before you take that knife out of the turkey and plunge it into the back of your sister-in-law, watch this video as Dr. Wes discusses what goes wrong at family holiday gatherings. Or at least he tries to scratch the surface. The […]

The Reason for the Season – What are You Grateful For?

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When I hauled the three boxes of Halloween decorations and costumes back up the attic, I realized that the candy bowl I’d been looking for the week before – the one with the grabby hand and sound effects – was in one of two other boxes of Halloween stuff that I had completely overlooked. “Oh, […]

Why Teens Don’t Care About Their Drivers License

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My kids, all three of them, have had an extraordinarily luke-warm attitude towards getting their driver’s licenses and based on conversations I’ve had with some of their friends’ parents they aren’t the only ones. Sure there are still plenty of kids chomping at the bit to get their licenses the day they turn 16, but […]

In the Game of Discipline, Who Wins and Who Loses?

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When you have teenagers, discipline takes on a whole new meaning. As do the ‘crimes’.  I mean, when they were little, it was time out, and it could be multiple times a day.  Some days I wished someone would put me in time out.  In our house, they would get the occasional swat on the […]

Finding Value In Family Relationships

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In one week, our family’s downsized. College Graduate moved to the East Coast and College Boy returned to the university. That leaves the High Schooler and Junior, the middle school boy. “Our fun little family of four” I call the rest of us. There’s a lot I like about a smaller family. We can go places […]

6 Tips Teens Should Know About Raising Parents

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How to Raise Your Parents These are just a few things I talk to teens about when I counsel them. They’re things I wish I knew as a teen, too. 1. Your parents may not know what to do with your emotions, but give them a chance to know how you feel. In the eyes […]

Appreciating the Small Gifts in the Sandwich Years

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The Sandwich Years of Midlife I am a 40-something. Mother of three, wife of one, daughter of two—one of which, my mom, has Alzheimer’s Disease. Looking back on the past year, it was really the time that it started to sink in—I AM in the “sandwich years” that everyone has told me about. I knew […]

Autism: Summer Isn’t Always Carefree

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Summer is nearly half-way over, but the carefree summer days most of us remember as children and teens is not the usual case for teens on the autism spectrum. More often than not, school and therapies continue. My husband and I are parents to a 12-year-old son on the autism spectrum along with a 10-year-old […]