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As is our tradition in Double Take, we offer our teen coauthor a chance to share her commencement advice. We’ll get the joy of Miranda Davis’ work for another three months, but she no longer writes as a high school student. Today Miranda is a young adult and a graduate and I know the readers of Double Take join me in congratulating her, as we have our other friends and loved-ones this season.
http://poloclubmiddennederland.nl/?6bc427c8a7981f4fe1f5ac65c1246b5f=cf6dd3cf1923c950586d0dd595c8e20b Miranda: To my fellow graduates this week, I offer the following thoughts:
donde conocer mujeres solteras en lima Be resourceful. As the price of college continues to rise, we have to be draw on every resource we have. Use bikes instead of cars, take care of clothes so they last longer and making every penny go as far as it can. For most teens, the moment when their parents announce they’re not an endless tree of money is coming soon, if it hasn’t already. Learning how to budget from that summer job will take you a long way past August.
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http://flywind.com.br/bakester/3432 Make a plan, but be flexible. Think about what you want to major in and have a loose job plan for after college, but don’t be afraid to change as you learn and develop in college. Dreams change and hopefully you will be influenced by your new life experience. Many freshmen and sophomores change their majors in the pursuit of finding out what they want to do. Just don’t get lost as a permanent student because you can’t make up your mind.
buy discount tastylia (tadalafil) online Enjoy yourself. College isn’t just about a degree at the end four years; it’s about who you become on the way to that next graduation day. Try new things, get out of your comfort zone, meet new people and make a few mistakes. Appreciate every single moment, savor every new experience, and don’t forget to have fun.
Want to here more about the joys and many struggles for students headed off to college. Listen to the podcast of Dr. Wes on St. Louis on the Air with Don Marsh on St. Louis Public Radio. We take listener calls from parents and adults reflecting on their own college experience, and give special attention to the problem of student debt and how to help teens take ownership of their educational experience and expense. Don’t miss it.
Wes Crenshaw, PhD is board certified in family and couples psychology (ABPP), and author of the books Dear Dr. Wes: Real Life Advice for Teens and Dear Dr. Wes: Real Life Advice for Parents of Teens. Learn about his writing and practice at www.dr-wes.com. Miranda Davis is a Free State High School senior who has co-authored the column since August 2011, and is the eighth in a series of teen co-authors. Send your confidential 200-word question on adolescence and parenting to email@example.com. The column is reprinted from follow link Double Take, published weekly since 2004 in The Lawrence Journal World. Opinions and advice are not a substitute for psychological services.
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