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follow url A week later, the Birthday Mom sent out an update letting everyone know that they decided to get to the event early and “we’ll probably leave between 1 and 1:30.”
mala suerte solteros sin compromiso Grrrrrr, I thought. Now someone is going to be disappointed. Aside from my son, would it be his hockey team or the birthday boy? Because one way or another, my son was going to have to make a difficult and unfortunate choice. If the departure time was 1:30, he could probably play for two periods of the game, but if it was at 1:00, he would either have to miss the game or miss the party. (Never was it discussed that I would drive the hour to the party and bring him late, though the thought crossed my mind as a highly undesirable-to-me possibility and was immediately swapped out for the thought that this would be a good opportunity for my son to learn about social graces and managing priorities.)
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rencontre joigny I didn’t hear back from Birthday Mom for more than two weeks, and at that point it was only four days before the party, when she declared 1:00 to be the official start time of the party, because she wanted to get the kids to the game early for a chance to meet the team mascot. This was not good news. Miss the party or miss the game, which now included the added bonus of the meet-and-greet. My son had just finished watching a Hulu Original Series (on streaming TV) called Behind the Mask, which was about mascots, and thus is particularly intrigued by mascots as of late. It would be a difficult choice to make. I suggested he sleep on it, but we’d need to let Birthday Mom know as soon as possible.
bdswiss geld verdienen The next morning when he was still having a hard time, I suggested he imagine telling his friend he was sorry he missed his party. (I was the one who would be emailing Birthday Mom so my son wouldn’t see his friend until next time he went to church, which would be after the party.) Then I suggested he imagine telling coach he’s sorry that he’ll be missing the game (since he’s expected to let coach know ahead of time if he can’t make a practice or game).
http://unbeatableconservatories.co.uk/miosds/674 And that was how he chose game over party. I notified Birthday mom by return email with “Regrets” in the subject line. Birthday Mom said she hoped my son had a good hockey game. I wished her son a happy birthday.
see Ultimately, the hockey game was one of the most exciting of the season with a dramatic tie-breaker goal at 4.2 seconds left that gave our team a 3-2 victory in a game that could’ve gone either way. My son got a lot of play time because we were down a defenseman; his line mate was participating in a charity event for a children’s hospital. I am sure he made the right choice.
go I hope the party was just as exciting.