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* I don’t miss tripping over shoes
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* These things are all put into perspective when there’s hurt around you.
* Counseling yourself, when you’re a counselor, is annoying.
* Time is a great commodity.
* I feel younger because I have more mental space.
* I rocked the school picture order form because I only had one to fill out. Although I forgot to send it on picture day.
* I like talking to my adult kids about adult stuff.
* We finally made a new will because our family has changed since our firstborn was 3 months old.
* I actually help Hubby without whining. Because I want to.
* I love my dog, Bubbles.
* I have a dozen cookie mixes in my pantry because several times in the last year I thought I would make cookies.
* I made banana bread from scratch for the First. Time. Ever.
* Transitions are hard.
* Routine is good.
* Being a college basketball mom is new.
* Bubbles loves me and doesn’t talk back.
* I mopped the wood floor for the first time in a really, really long time. On my hands and knees (it was gross).
When ordering new linoleum for the gross bathroom floor, someone at the carpet store said, “Wait, you have a new house.”
“It’s been seventeen years” I said.
Seventeen years where I went from being pregnant with #4, exhausted, not knowing where anything is for all those years, to having a quiet house with made beds and empty nights and just one kid to cook for.
It’s been a blur.
I don’t care so much if there are dents in the wood floor, but I did a few years ago.
Because our house is where we’ve lived with messes and noise and homework and science fair and 4-H and sports equipment and freezer meals and toys and diapers and vomit-on-carpet and basement basketball and nail polish on carpet and messes that don’t last forever.
But memories do.
So do relationships, conversations, laughter, and tears. What doesn’t last forever is the heart that aches when quiet feels big and overwhelming and sad.
But quiet has its place, too, for you to learn new things.
Like giving yourself time and space to ache, to weep, to find your new normal when you feel that you’re living a life that isn’t yours.
Kids growing up means you grow up with them. And every stage has growing pains.
But life is still good.
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